Loving an avoidant partner can be confusing and painful. Some anxious and avoidant people end up in the anxious-avoidant trap. Avoidant attachment isn’t about a lack of care, but about how closeness triggers discomfort, overwhelm, and self-protection.

This group helps you understand what’s really happening beneath the behavior.

You’ll get open access to all avoidant-focused courses, worksheets, deep dives, and books — no tiers, no restrictions, and no watered-down explanations. It’s a content-heavy space for people who want real understanding, not quick fixes.

There’s dedicated support for anxious attachers paired with avoidants, including worksheets and tools designed to help you regulate, stop over-pursuing, and move toward greater security.

You'll:
[ul][li]Access current and future courses[li]Weekly worksheets and deep dives[li]New ebooks every month.[li]Community to connect, share, and learn

I drop in on Fridays to answer questions and offer guidance in the community.